A few weeks ago I started seeing somebody modern and I have been trying to tread lightly when it comes to our involvement.
I do not want to jump into anything too quickly or get in over my head.
I want to make the smartest decisions possible and to make sure we’re legitimately compatible before I make any giant mistakes. If there’s any sign of trouble, or a major part where my friend and I disagree, I’m not turning my cheek from that red flag. I have made that mistake in the past. I’m uneasy that I’m being overly critical, but I’m also looking to protect myself. That’s why I’m a bit worried about this relationship that I have started… Everything has been going great, until I stayed over the other night. It was my first time at her household and everything was good until it was getting pretty late and my friend and I settled into bed. That’s when I realized for the first time but it felt legitimately hot and muggy in the room. The air felt completely unusual than the rest of the apartment. It was as though the a/c wasn’t running at all, but if you stepped out into the hallway the temperature was 10 degrees cooler. I tried to casually mention the exhausting air quality inside of her room, and she mentioned that the a/c unit had not been functioning well. Intrigued, I asked how long the AC had been deteriorating. She replied, saying at least two years now. She hadn’t bothered to call out an Heating and Air Conditioning serviceman because the cool air didn’t legitimately bother him. As someone who cannot sleep without Amazing a/c all around me, I was a bit shocked, needless to say, I will not be pursuing this relationship.