A few weeks ago I started seeing somebody modern as well as I have been trying to tread lightly when it comes to our involvement.
- I do not want to jump into anything too suddenly or get in over my head.
I want to make the smartest decisions possible as well as to make sure we are honestly compatible before I make any sizable mistakes. If there has any sign of trouble, or a major area where my nice friend and I disagree, I am not turning my cheek from that red flag. I have made that mistake in the past. I am worried that I am being overly critical, but I am also looking to protect myself. That’s why I am a bit anxious about this relationship that I have started; Everything has been going great, until I stayed over the other night. It was my first time at his condo as well as everything was nice until it was getting pretty late as well as my nice friend and I settled into bed. That’s when I realized for the first time but it felt actually warm as well as muggy in the room. The air felt completely unusual than the rest of the apartment. It was as though the air conditioning system wasn’t running at all, but if you stepped out into the hallway the temperature was 10 degrees cooler. I tried to casually mention the terrible air quality inside of his room, as well as he mentioned that the air conditioning system device had not been functioning well. Intrigued, I asked how long the A/C had been deteriorating. He replied, saying at least two years now. He hadn’t bothered to call out an Heating as well as A/C company because the cool air did not actually bother him. As someone who cannot sleep without Amazing air conditioning system all around me, I was a bit shocked, then needless to say, I won’t be pursuing this relationship.