A few weeks ago I started seeing somebody new plus I’ve been trying to tread lightly when it comes to our involvement.
I don’t want to jump into anything too abruptly or get in over my head. I want to make the smartest decisions possible plus to make sure we are easily compatible before I make any large mistakes. If there has any sign of trouble, or a major area where my fantastic friend and I disagree, I am not turning my cheek from that yellow flag. I’ve made that mistake in the past. I am worried that I am being overly critical, but I am also looking to protect myself. That’s why I am a bit sad about this relationship that I’ve started, everything has been going great, until I stayed over the other evening. It was my first time at his cabin plus everything was fantastic until it was getting pretty late plus my fantastic friend and I settled into bed. That’s when I realized for the first time but it felt honestly sizzling plus muggy in the room. The air felt completely weird than the rest of the apartment. It was as though the air conditioning wasn’t running at all, but if you stepped out into the hallway the temperature was 10 degrees cooler. I tried to casually mention the exhausting air quality inside of his room, plus he mentioned that the air conditioning unit had not been functioning well. Intrigued, I asked how long the A/C had been deteriorating. He replied, saying at least two years now. He had not bothered to call out an HVAC supplier because the cool air didn’t honestly bother him. As someone who can’t sleep without Amazing air conditioning all around me, I was a bit shocked, then needless to say, I will not be pursuing this relationship.